Issue No. 21 - Tuesday, January 19, 2010 Welcome to the The BUZZYour Twice Monthly opportunity to check-in and tune-up your emotional guidance system for more joy-filled manifesting.Hi All, Welcome new subscribers and Greetings to our longer term friends! The BuZz is back after a Holiday hyatus. We'll be back again each month for your enjoyment. We so appreciate you being with us, and love it when you share what you're up to. We're always interested in what you're interested in, so please feel free to leave a note, send a request, suggestion or idea. Remember, we're here for you! ~ Nanette Geiger
Have You Already Ditched Those New Year's Resolutions?By Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Expert
Nanette Geiger Best Selling Author, Top Law of Attraction Life & Relationship Expert Did you realize that the average New Year's resolution lasts about 3 weeks? Does that sound like you? I have a solution to that problem. Stop making New Year's resolutions. That's right! They don't inspire you, that don't compel you toward your goal, so stop making them and start creating an inspired vision instead. Top Reasons New Year's Resolutions FailReason Number 1: Your goals are ones you 'think' you should have.Do you find yourself measuring yourself against others in career, income, body, relationship, and all those other measures we're so familiar with? We stop doing that. You are unique. All of your intentions are specific to you. Sure we share common intentions and desires but there's no one else exactly like you. You have a particular spin on life that is refreshing. Acknowledge yourself for that. And chances are those with whom you are comparing yourself already think that you have a lot going for you. Reason Number 2: Your goals are what others expect you to have.Are these your goals and dreams or someone else's? Are they your mother's, your bosses, your spouse's, your kid's, your friend's, or the media? Are you supposed to have 2.4 children by now living in the suburbs? Are you supposed to have made it to a certain level of income? Similar to the above reason for goal failure, but different in that you probably don't realize how much you are run by the voices, stories and expectations of others. Get these people and their voices to quiet down and evict them from the center of your head. That's precious real estate. Own your own thoughts and distinguish when you start hearing conversations that aren't yours. Reason Number 3: You don't have a compelling enough reason or vision pulling your forward.Often because of the previous two reasons you don't feel on fire about your desires, goals and dreams. It's no surprise that these don't hold the spark for you. Get specific about a goal, intention or dream that lights you up. You don't need to share your goals with anyone who won't support you 100%. They may throw cold water on your passions. Rather set that concrete goal and then imagine what it's like to have that dream fulfilled. Forget about the "how" for now. When you practice your vision by stoking up your imagination of what it's like to already have it, you'll be sending signals to Universe which will match back your vibration and give you the next logical step of inspired action leading to the fulfillment of that goal or intention. Reason Number 4: You don't practice the feeling of the goal realized.You've set a goal, intention, objective or dream and you've just set it on your 'To-Do' list in some form of action steps that seem to be a logical way to achieve your goal. And because you haven't practiced finding that all important FEELING place of what it's like to have your goal actualized, you lose your vision. Remember the Old Testament scripture "Without a vision the people perish?" Well, it's the same thing. You must keep your intentions, dreams and goals ALIVE with feeling what it's like to already have it. Ask yourself: Who would I be BEING if I already had these dreams, goals or intentions fulfilled? Notice the emphasis on BEING? It's of utter importance that you find the being place/feeling place. This creates pulling power. Your thoughts are electric, your feelings and emotions are MAGNETIC. You want pulling power. Something that compels you forward and magnetizes the fulfillment of your goals to you. Reason Number 5: You have no accountability or structure to support you in place.Most of us are too concerned about looking good, avoiding failure or are just plain too lazy to practice the structure of accountability. And really that's just because we haven't found the right combination to experience success. Get yourself a buddy, mastermind group, mentor, or coach. When you co-create with another, momentum really starts to build. Ask each other to talk about the WHYs. Why do you want that outcome? Why do you want that dream? Asking "WHY" helps to clarify your intentions and helps you determine if you're in a moving toward energy or an avoiding energy. For example, you want to bring in more money in your home based business. Your mastermind group or coach asks you "Why do you want it?" Your response is "because I like having the freedom of my own income and I hate asking my husband for money" A-HA! That should be a real tip off that you're in the avoiding energy mode. You are sending the Universe very mixed signals here. Can you tell? Go for inspired Action. Celebrate the wins -- big and small. And install a daily practice of Gratitude! Make your daily list of 10 gratitudes - every day. When you create inspired visions, intentions, and goals this way, you'll always win. Soon you'll resolve to stop making New Year's Resolutions because you won't need to! Create an awesome 2010.
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Nanette Geiger is an inspirational Law of Attraction practicioner, speaker, coach and Best Selling author of, "Create the Love of Your Dreams: the Essential How-To Relationship Book using the Law of Attraction." Nanette is co-founder of the Create & Attract Learning Center, an online University dedicated to lifelong learning and the advancement of Law of Attraction based studies for human transformation, joy and self-expression. Nanette is available for private coaching consultations in person by phone. Call US 919-371-2430 or send here for more information and rates. Copyright © 2009 by Nanette Geiger and Create & Attract Publishing. All rights reserved. DO YOU WANT TO REPRINT THIS ARTICLE IN YOUR NEWSLETTER OR WEBSITE? Please contact Media Relations for permission to reprint our articles or for more information.
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