Issue No. 7 – Sunday, December 7, 2008

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In This Issue:

Announcements/Offers
Sneak Peak from my upcoming book:
Create the Love of Your Dreams
Feature Article – Appearances Aren’t Everything
Part III of a Three-Part Series on Intentional Dating

Announcements/Offers

The Intentional Dating Series

Part Three of Three Instalments

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If you have friends new to the Law of Attraction, don’t miss my F*R.E.E. eBook “Five Secrets to Create and Attract the Life of Your Dreams.” Tell your friends about it. It’s F.R.E.E.

My NEW eBook

“The 8 Most Powerful Tools For Attracting An Intimate Relationship” is ready now. This ebook is for those of you who are looking for your dream relationship OR Know someone who is! Find out what’s been stopping you as I clarify how the Law of Attraction works in the relationship game. Get clear now

Official Book Launch Date

The official launch date is January 13, 2009 for my book Create the Love of Your Dreams. We expect to see the first proofs this week, with the book available by the next issue of The BUZZ!

Past Issues of The BUZZ

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Sneak Peak from my upcoming book:
Create the Love of Your Dreams

FROM CHAPTER 7 – THE MOST POWERFUL SECRET REVEALED

EGO IS NOT INTERESTED IN CHANGE

If you want to continue to explore the riches the Universe has in store for you, are you willing to dig for the gold? Most people won’t because they find it’s too much work. But you are not like most people. You are on the leading edge, my friend. As Abraham-Hicks say “there is never a crowd on the leading edge.” That means that you will master these principles and teach others by your example. By observing you, they’ll learn to expand their hearts with love, joy, and companionship like never before.

For some, there will be old patterns attempting to place roadblocks to their greater good by convincing them that they are right about being limited. As preposterous as that sounds, an ego stronghold position insists you’re right about whatever you maintain as your position. So you get to be right. It’s your ego’s last bastion of control keeping you apart from your own genius. You get to be right about playing small.

Feature Article – PART III

Intentional Dating – Appearances Aren’t Everything

PART III of a Three-Part Series on Intentional Dating

In Part One of Intentional Dating, called “Winning the Dating Game,” we talked about what things to avoid doing and what behaviors to exhibit while playing the dating game.

In Part Two, entitled “Play with Passion and Purpose,” we talked about the keeping the game FUN, rather than a Win/Lose proposition. Remember, it’s your game. You get to make the rules.

In the last of our series on Intentional Dating, “Appearance Aren’t Everything,” let’s talk about the all important external part of appearance. Here are the results from a survey taken by a popular dating.

Choose the most important features of a partner
Personality	30%
Sense of Humor	14%
Smile	12%
Looks	11%
Eyes	10%
Hair	7%
Education	7%
Physique	5%
Career	3%
Popularity	0%

As you can see, Personality rated top, overwhelmingly!

What does that say about a person? What does it say about the dater and the datee? It says that personality, no matter what side of the table you’re on, is a desirable trait from either person’s point of view.

Now Appearance is often categorized as an external representation of a person. But as you can see, Personality was rated number one. Personality, self-confidence, an engaging attitude, warmth and authenticity are the traits that win out over Physical Appearance. So many of us are hung up on physical appearance, we get stopped before we get started.

What are characteristics of personality? Confidence. Self-confidence to be precise. The ability to relax, enjoy, and communicate in relaxed and engaging manners.

What are inherent traits of self-confidence?

Knowing what you want.
Self-assurance. Feeling assured that what you want is within your reach.
Self-esteem. Knowing you’re worthy of what you want.
Poise. Under most circumstances you remain nonplussed.

What I’m pointing to is the non-physical aspects of ‘Personality’. An engaging personality has little to do with physical appearances.

Many people I know, whether they’re getting back into the dating game, or just thinking about it get stopped with the externals of the game.

“I’m no longer a spring chicken.”
“I can’t compete with the hotties.”
“The singles scene seems so superficial.”

That kind of internal dialogue will never get you back out into circulation. Feeling confident, having an engaging attitude, always having a ready, genuine smile and being kind, are the winners of the day. Realize that you don’t have to do the singles thing. You can meet Mr. or Ms. Right in the grocery store, at church, on a walk, anywhere. Don’t limit yourself by what others are saying.

Now from the perspective of the Law of Attraction, the essence of what you emanate is attracted or drawn right back to you. If that’s so, (and it is) doesn’t it makes sense to get dressed with a smile before you go out of the house? It becomes a matter of practicing the traits of self-confidence; being clear about what you want, the ability to have it, knowing your worthy of what you want, and being calmly expectant that the timing is all in perfect order.

To be in the intentional dating mode, you need to ENERGETICALLY dress for success.

To win the dating game, you want to remember it’s your choice. You chose it, so choose it to be fun.

Now you’re in the mode of going forth with confidence.

It would be a good idea to script your desired outcome for any date. Write a little summary of an after-the-fact successful date. Write as though the date already happened and you’re really pleased with the outcome. If you don’t have any dating prospects, script a pleasant outcome from a trip to the library or coffee shop. You’re creating your entire life by your beliefs and your thoughts, so why not get creative and deliberate about it. You might pleasantly surprise yourself.

Your enjoyment of life is directly related to how you perceive every event, situation or outcome. It’s not always easy to see that our interpretation of an event is what makes it good or bad. Fully empower yourself by taking 100% responsibility for your joy and self-expression. Nobody else has the power to make you feel bad or good, for that matter. It’s always an inside job.

Remember, dating is a game. Relationships are a game. We play to have fun, to explore and expand our nature. Make sure your games are for fun and not to win and you’ll always have a great experience. I wish you many fun adventures!

About the author:
Top Law of Attraction Coach, Nanette Geiger, is the author of the Best Selling book, “Create the Love of Your Dreams,” as well as many other books and articles focusing on Law of Attraction, Manifesting Wealth and Relationship Attraction.

You can find more helpful articles on the resource page and books on the publications page of her website at http://www.nanettegeiger.com.

You really can have the Life of your Dreams! Download Nanette’s latest FREE ebook, 5 Secrets to Creating and Attracting the Life of Your Dreams , and start creating the life you want today!

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